I don’t fancy [insert race], that’s just my preference
Nobody is saying you must sleep with somebody you don’t find attractive, but ask yourself this:
- Why are you discounting an entire race of people, most of whom you have never met, based on skin colour and physical characteristics?
- What specific characteristics do you find unappealing?
- What taught you to dislike those characteristics?
As explained by writer Phillip Henry, some people have a preference for short guys, or hairy guys, or guys with green eyes. But men of every race can be short, hairy, or have green eyes. Only black people can be discriminated against for being black people.
“When you say that it’s ‘just a preference’ that you don’t date people of colour, what is the answer to the question: ‘What do you prefer?’ Seriously, try to be more specific and answer that question to yourself out loud.”